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UPDATED: Remembering James Harvey, 2005 ALJ Grad Killed in Afghanistan on Monday

Harvey, 23, served in the Army since 2009.

Updated Story

The knock on the door of their Toms River home was the one the Harveys had been dreading since their son James was deployed to Afghanistan in January.

Just days after they’d received his sergeant stripes in the mail for their son’s upcoming promotion – and on the brink of the president’s announcement that troops would be withdrawn from the country – Susan and James Harvey learned that James, 23, had been killed in action when insurgents attacked his unit with small arms fire on Monday in the Ghazni province.

“As soon as my mom opened the door, she knew. They didn't have to say anything,” said Harvey’s sister Christine in a phone interview. “It’s mind-numbing. It’s still surreal for us.”

The Harveys lowered the flag on their Bayview Drive home and, learning the tragic news, their neighbors followed suit – one even played Taps.

Harvey was a 2005 Arthur L. Johnson graduate, where he played lacrosse for two years, was well liked, a good student and had many friends. He lived on Conger Way in Clark after moving from Union with his parents and three older sisters – Christine, 35, Robin, 29, and Tracey, 25. (The Harveys moved to Toms River in 2007.) Harvey went on to study at Lincoln Tech, work as a mechanic and then as a substation operator for PSEG. But joining the Army was always on his mind. He enlisted in January 2009 and was deployed to Afghanistan in January of this year.

The Harvey family’s pain is only mitigated by the knowledge that James – more often known as “Jimmy” – died with honor, doing what he loved.

“Jimmy wanted to do this right out of high school,” said Christine. “I do think 9/11 might have had a little to do with it. He was trying to find out where his knack was after high school and the bottom line was it all kept leading back to the Army.”

“It was something he felt he had to do,” said Tracey.

Harvey’s father had also served in the Army after enlisting during the Vietnam War and was stationed in Germany for some time. “My parents weren’t surprised when he wanted to enlist,” said Christine. “They were supportive, but of course they were worried.”

Harvey was assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 2nd Infantry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team of the 1st Infantry Division out of Fort Knox, Kentucky. He was a model soldier and moved through the ranks quickly, ascending to corporal in just two years. “He fit right in,” said Christine. “He took it very seriously. If you mocked the Army or made any kind of condescending remark, he was first to defend it.”

Harvey was deployed in January, his first deployment, and would have been in Afghanistan for a year. He looked forward to getting there, writing on Facebook that he “can’t wait to be ‘Boots on the Ground.’” Harvey used the social networking site to keep in touch with friends and family and updated his status regularly, often with a sense of humor. After a month of deployment, he wrote, “So Afghanistan, definitely an awesome vacation spot, never a dull moment.”

The Harvey family is grateful that James was able to come home for R&R for a few weeks just last month. "When he was home, he was in a good mood," said Christine. "We had a barbecue and he spent lots of time with friends and family. We made a point to all get together."

Friends say Harvey was anxious to get back to the Army and even went to the shooting range while he was home, though he was nervous about retaliation after Osama bin Laden was killed on May 2. "I was worried," said Christine. "He was worried. Even though he was excited about Osama's death, he felt it gave a false sense of hope, and he knew it was going to make his job harder. Once he went back in May it was a lot of action. He wasn't as talkative as he was in the beginning. He was busy." 

"I asked him, 'When do you think you guys are going to get done?'" said Tracey, "and he said not anytime soon."

The way friends and family talk about Harvey – dependable, disciplined, a thrill-seeker, passionate, would give you the shirt off his back – it seems no surprise he joined the military. He loved paintballing and the video game Call of Duty, camping, fishing ("as long as something was biting," says Tracey) and the outdoors. He was a Boy Scout. Tracey and Christine say he felt like he had found his perfect fit in the Army.

His sisters depict Harvey as all you could ask for in a brother. “He was always there for us,” said Christine. “Sure, he’d moan and complain the way brothers do when you’d call him to come help you fix a flat, but he’d always show up.” He bonded easily with his five-year-old nephew Ryan. “Jimmy turned into a five-year-old around him,” said Christine, who struggles with how she’ll break the news to her son. And though he was their little brother, Harvey was more often the big brother type – not only for his sisters, but also for whoever needed a ride, a hand, a friend.

"He was probably one of the best guys I knew," said Jessica Kraft, 23, who met Harvey through mutual friends seven years ago. Kraft remembers a night when she hurt her back and couldn't drive home and Harvey and a friend came and picked her up, brought her ice, and let her hang out until she felt better. "And he was a goofball. He was really funny. But he would open his house for anyone who needed something. He was a very loving person and someone you wanted to be around." 

"The best trait about him was dependability," said another friend, Brian Scarpellini, 22. "It didn’t even matter if you two were in an awful fight. If you needed him for any reason, he was always there. And he was also well-known for diffusing fights among friends." Scarpellini says Harvey's death has already brought their group of friends closer and made them realize how important it is to keep in touch.

Kraft, Scarpellini and other friends describe Harvey as the life of the party and the home he shared with friends in Scotch Plains before enlisting was often the location. During the times he came home from Army, Harvey would still let loose with friends, but remained focused – after a night out, while everyone else would still be sleeping off the buzz, he’d already be up and out for a run. "I've never met someone who enjoyed being in the Army so much," said Kraft. "He absolutely loved it and was almost fiending to go back last time he was home."

"When he decided to join the Army, I was surprised because it was like he had a set life in a sense," said Scarpellini. "He didn’t have to worry. He worked for PSEG and he was doing well for his age. The career that he had was very promising. But I think everyone knew he was looking for something else."

His sisters say Harvey’s tough-guy exterior belied a deeply emotional center. "With his personal life, he was quiet," said Christine. "Even with his friends, he wouldn't really show his emotions. And he couldn't because he actually was so emotional. He was a big mush, so he had to have that facade." 

"He was very mature for his age," said Scarpellini. "I’ve always known him just to drive when he was upset. He found a lot of scenic overlooks and routes we didn’t know, and when he was upset would go hide in one of those spots. Even though he was active and at times very loud, what he always really wanted was tranquility." 

Today the family will meet the plane carrying their son’s body at Dover Airforce Base in Delaware. Funeral arrangements at O’Brien Funeral Home in Wall are still being finalized. Harvey will be awarded the Bronze Star for heroism and the Purple Heart and has been posthumously promoted to sergeant. He would have turned 24 next month on July 21. 

For the town of Clark, the loss of Harvey comes just seven years after Clark’s 20th “Fallen Hero,” Army Pfc. Stephen Benish, who was killed in action in Iraq in 2004. Bill Duffy, president of the Clark American Legion, was stunned to hear the news about Harvey. “My sadness is heightened by the fact that I did not know of this young man's active duty service," said Duffy. "I try to keep up on all of the Clark kids that go into the service, and then sign them into the American Legion and we pay their dues. At the present time, Post 328 pays the dues of about 30 Clark kids who are on active duty. James Harvey has become the 21st Clark resident to have died during wartime. Clark has now lost two of its sons to the War on Terror. Right now, all we can do is honor his service. In the future, the next new Clark street shall be dedicated and named after James Harvey.”

The flags in front of the Clark Municipal Building were flown at half-staff on Tuesday in honor of Harvey.

"Jimmy was very proud of what he did," said Christine. "As much as we all are hurting, we all are very proud. It takes a strong man to go off to war and not many men are willing to do it voluntarily." 

"He always had to make sure everyone was safe, in a sense," said Scarpellini. "A lot of people only look out for themselves nowadays, and I wouldn’t be surprised if the reason he died was because he was looking out for someone else."

In the wake of Harvey’s death, friends are still writing to him on his Facebook wall, their notes of love and sorrow echoing in a now-silent space. But Harvey’s earlier messages suggest how he might reply: In February, he wrote, “‎The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.”

 

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Original Story - Posted Monday, June 20 at 10:30 p.m.

Clark-Garwood Patch has received word that 2005 Arthur L. Johnson grad and Army infantryman James Harvey died today, June 20, while serving in Afghanistan. 

Harvey, 23, served in the 1st Infantry Division after enlisting in January 2009. He grew up on Conger Way in Clark with his three older sisters Christine, Robin and Tracey and parents, James and Susan.

Harvey's family was notified Monday evening, according to a friend of the family. Friends began posting messages on Harvey's Facebook page as the news spread.

No details regarding Harvey's death have been released yet from the Department of Defense. According to the 1st Infantry Division Public Affairs department, news releases regarding casualties are not issued until 24 hours after the next of kin has been notified. 

Clark-Garwood Patch will update this story as more information becomes available.

Friends and family members wishing to share their memories of Harvey for a follow-up story can e-mail jessica.remo@patch.com or call 732-796-8940. 

ro dattilo June 21, 2011 at 10:34 AM
My heart is breaking for his family and friends.
joanne lang June 21, 2011 at 12:23 PM
Such sad news. My heart goes out to his loved ones.
Bill Duffy June 21, 2011 at 12:39 PM
Jimmy-All the veterans of Clark, New Jersey, and all of it's residents, have you and your family in our prayers. Thank you for your service to America. Clark American Legion Post #328, will ensure that your sacrifice will not be forgotten. We gurantee this to you and your family. Bill Duffy Commander Post #328.
South Westfielder June 21, 2011 at 03:23 PM
My deepest sympathy goes to the Harvey family. Thank you to this brave young man who gave his life for the people of Afghanistan and for us. Thanks to his parents for raising him. May his memory never be forgotten and his death not be in vain.
kgoins June 21, 2011 at 04:04 PM
My condolences to jimmy's family, all of our friends and family love and will miss you brother. Ill never forget all of the memories and good times we had over the years. You will be forever remembered in our hearts and soul.RIP JIMMY rest easy.
Brian Thorn June 21, 2011 at 09:21 PM
Lil bro we all will miss you. I know you will be watching over all of us from up above. We will meet agian Oh yes we shall meet again. Love and Miss you bro, Bird
Mike Simpson June 21, 2011 at 11:58 PM
It is with deep regret and sorrow that we have added another New Jersey Hero to the Wall. Sgt Harvey - we will be running 1 mile in your honor on Sunday September 25, 2011. http://www.njrunforthefallen.org/index.html Rest in Peace Soldier...Always Honored - Never Forgotten
marie struble June 22, 2011 at 03:26 PM
My heart BLEEDS for his family!! It is with great love that I embrace you and offer you my condolences! As a Blue Star Mother, your hero is our hero! This "Draw Down of Troops" is too late for this family!! PLEASE make your voice heard that no more troops are sacrificed or harmed. Lets demand all our boys come home NOW!!! Now is not 2014! I am a mother of a marine scheduled for future deployment! I am also a friend of Linda Russo & a Blue Star Mother. Marie Struble Wall, NJ
Arthur Wright June 23, 2011 at 07:32 PM
Art Wright The Officers and Members ot the Whiting American Legion Post No. 502 joinm in extending Heartfelt Sympathy to your family at this Time of Sorrow. Arthur Wright Commander Post # 502
mark June 27, 2011 at 02:39 PM
I did not know of Mr. Harvey nor do i live in this town but my heartfelt thanks and sympathy go out to his family for the loss of another american hero to gave his life so we can remain free
judith tapper July 07, 2011 at 12:06 AM
To the Harvey Family. I am Judi Tapper, Pres. Dept. of NJ American Gold Star Mothers, We all extend our heartfelt sympathy and prayers. Please feel free to contact any Gold Star Mom if you just want to talk. God bless you all. judi.tapper@verizon.net
Austin J. Eutsler July 17, 2011 at 07:36 PM
To Harvey's family and friends, you have my deepest sympathy and I continue to keep you in my prayers. I'm proud to say that i worked and served with Harvey and had the privilege of knowing him. He was one of the greatest guys i've had the chance to work with, he always knew what was best and never hesitated to share his knowledge with the rest of us, Harvey was an over all great man, he will be missed

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